跨文化交際實用教程unit-6PPT演示課件

1、1,Unit 6,Cross-Gender Communication,2,Learn the differences of sex and gender; Learn the differences of feminine and masculine communication cultures; Learn to understand cross-gender communication,Objectives,3,Contents,4,5,Expressions related to two genders,Men are from Mars, women are from Venus.

2、Therere three types of human beings: men, women and women doctors. Man and woman are like two hedgehogs in winter: too close, get hurt; too far away, get lonely and cold. Is it possible to get a confidante or male confidant in reality,6,“別瞎說，我們只是好朋友而已?！甭牭竭@種臺詞，相必一大幫人會帶著一副原來如此的表情在心里說“且”。 我只聽過一句話“不要讓你的

3、女朋友有藍(lán)顏知己，因為藍(lán)著藍(lán)著你就綠了，不要讓你的男朋友有紅顏知己，因為紅著紅著你倆就黃了”我覺得很對。 在幼兒園里存在，還有就是耄耋之年有，這中間的年齡段絕對是挑戰(zhàn),無論紅顏藍(lán)顏，都是替補隊員,理論上當(dāng)然有，兩個條件：長得足夠難看，情商足夠高,據(jù)說90+的妹子認(rèn)為存在的 90+的男人認(rèn)為不存在,如果這個世界有鬼存在的話，我就會相信有紅顏知己存在,7,1. Lead-in,How could you explain to Li Huas parents about the relationship between Li Hua and John? How could you explain t

4、o John Li Huas parents behavior,Case 1 Ive not considered marriage yet,8,comment,The case shows man and womans different attitudes toward their relationship, and the parents attitudes regarding childrens love and marriage in Chinese culture,9,To John 6 months not lead to marriage To Li Hua time to b

5、ring John to meet parents To Li Huas parents treat John as a future son-in-law background marriage plans,misunderstanding conflict,10,2. Text Study,Please read Sex and Gender in your textbook from page 119 to 120 and answer the following questions,What is sex? And what is gender? 2. What is the diff

6、erence between sex and genger,11,Indicate sexual identities,Sex is determined by genetic codes that program biological features. Man woman Male female,Gender is more complex than sex. masculine and feminine,12,Sex is determined by genetics and biology, while gender is produced by society,13,Please r

7、ead Feminine and Masculine Communication Cultures in your textbook from page 120 to 123 and answer the following questions,What are the basic rules of boys or girls interaction? What are the differences between feminine and masculine communication culture,14,Girls Games (unstructured, cooperative) B

8、e cooperative, hecollaborative,and inclusive Dont criticize or outdo others. Pay attention to others feelings and needs,Boys games (more structured, large, individualized) Assert yourself. Focus on outdoors. Be competitive,15,Summary,Girls games occur within a gender culture that emphasizes cooperat

9、ion, sensitivity toward others, and experience more than outcome. Boys games emphasize achievement, both for the team and for the individual members,16,Differences between Feminine and Masculine Communication Culture,Feminine Talk 1.Use talk to build and sustain rapport with others. 2. Share yoursel

10、f and learn about others through disclosing 3. Use talk to create symmetry or equality between people,Masculine Talk 1. Use talk to assert yourself and your ideas. 2. Personal disclosures can make you vulnerable 3. Use talk to establish your status and power,17,4. Matching experiences with others sh

11、ows understanding and empathy 5. To support others, express understanding of their feelings. 6. Include others in conversation by asking their opinions and encouraging them to elaborate,4. Matching experiences is a competitive strategy to command attention. 5. To support others, do something helpful

12、 6. Dont share the talk stage with others, wrest it from them with communication. Interrupt others to make your own points,18,7. Keep the conversation going by asking questions and showing interest in others ideas. 8. Be responsive. Let others know you hear and care about what they say. 9. Be tentat

13、ive so that others feel free to add their ideas. 10. Talking is a human relationship in which details and interesting side comments enhance depth of connection,7. Each person is on her or his own; its not your job to help others join in. 8. Use responses to make your own points and to outshine others. 9. Be assertive so others perceive you as confident and in command. 10. Talking is a linear sequence that should convey information and accomplish goals,19,Four Examples,What counts as support? Tricky feedback Expressing care Id