有一種姿態(tài)能預(yù)知你的成功

1、有一種姿態(tài)能預(yù)知你的成功老師們、同學(xué)們：上午好！今天我們一起來學(xué)習(xí)邱裕華的文章，題目叫做：有一種姿態(tài)能預(yù)知你的成功如果有人說，看看你年輕時(shí)的照片，就能對(duì)你的未來看個(gè)八九不離十。事實(shí)果真如此嗎？美國(guó)和英國(guó)的兩個(gè)心理學(xué)研究所曾對(duì)畢業(yè)照進(jìn)行了專門的研究，他們收集了5000張初中和高中學(xué)生的畢業(yè)合影，從中確定了5萬人。經(jīng)過長(zhǎng)達(dá)41年的跟蹤調(diào)查，研究人員發(fā)現(xiàn)：從總體上看，那些面帶善意、自信微笑的學(xué)生，到中年以后事業(yè)成功率以及生活幸福程度，都遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)高于那些面部表情不好、郁郁寡歡的人。沒錯(cuò)，通過微笑能預(yù)知你的成功。不是嗎？看看我們周圍，那些愈是愁眉苦臉、牢騷滿腹的人，愈是生活得不盡如人意，與成功愈是無緣。相反

2、，那些總是面帶微笑、笑容可掬的人，似乎好運(yùn)氣特別喜歡跟著他們，不管是事業(yè)還是生活，他們都比旁人成功。為什么？很簡(jiǎn)單，臉上的表情往往反映了一個(gè)人的心態(tài)。有什么樣的心態(tài)，往往就有什么樣的現(xiàn)在，就有什么樣的未來。一個(gè)人，當(dāng)他以微笑的姿態(tài)選擇并擁有積極快樂的心態(tài)時(shí)，不僅能讓其自身的知識(shí)和能力得到最優(yōu)化的發(fā)揮，讓其充滿自信地去面對(duì)各種挫折，而且能讓其人際關(guān)系變得越來越融洽，從而在人生道路上形成良性循環(huán)，走出一片廣闊的天地。微笑是對(duì)自己的肯定。日本的原一平雖然個(gè)頭較矮，從事保險(xiǎn)業(yè)時(shí)已經(jīng)三四十歲了，但他總是很樂觀，每天不斷地微笑著和別人打招呼，不管對(duì)方在意不在意，他都不在乎，一如既往地向人們真誠(chéng)地微笑著。他

3、的微笑慢慢感染了許多人，使他獲得了事業(yè)上的巨大成功，成為日本保險(xiǎn)業(yè)連續(xù)15年全國(guó)業(yè)績(jī)第一的“推銷之神”。他的微笑也被稱為“全球最自信的微笑”。微笑是對(duì)挫折的挑戰(zhàn)。微笑的人并非沒有失敗，并非沒有痛苦，只是他們勇于面對(duì)生命中的起起伏伏，將目光更多地停留在了美好的一面。如果一味地苛求生活，憐憫自我，怨天尤人，愁苦只會(huì)越來越多。給生命一個(gè)真誠(chéng)的微笑，才能擁抱整個(gè)世界。就像千手觀音的那些演員，雖然是一群聾啞姐妹，但她們那恒美的微笑、優(yōu)美的舞蹈卻打動(dòng)了世界，讓億萬觀眾動(dòng)容。正如有一位科學(xué)家所說：“微笑對(duì)于一切痛苦都有超然的力量，甚至能改變?nèi)说囊簧??！蔽⑿κ菍?duì)世界的感恩。我們的境遇，春風(fēng)得意也好，平平淡淡也

4、罷，內(nèi)心多一分知足，人生就多一分甜美。無論生活給了我們多少失落與辛酸，以一顆感恩之心去微笑著面對(duì)一花一木，人生才能變得從容、優(yōu)雅、大氣。我們?cè)吹竭^這樣的故事：同樣是貧困的被資助者，有的心安理得地享受著別人的恩惠，甚至是以冷漠的姿態(tài)來接受，有的卻能對(duì)他人給予真誠(chéng)的笑臉。他們的結(jié)果，自然不言而喻。你領(lǐng)助學(xué)金、獎(jiǎng)學(xué)金的時(shí)候是什么姿態(tài)？應(yīng)該微笑著用雙手接著，然后彎腰致謝！如果說人生需要一個(gè)完美的符號(hào)，那么沒有比微笑更適合了。微笑是甜美的歌聲，能唱出生活的快樂；微笑是溫暖的陽(yáng)光，能驅(qū)散心頭的陰影；微笑是無邊的春風(fēng)，能蓬勃事業(yè)的生機(jī)。給生命一個(gè)微笑，用微笑面對(duì)人生。就如蒼鷹自信地搏擊長(zhǎng)空，就如河流歡快地

5、融入大海。希望所有的天有人不管你是喜還是憂，不管你是窮還是富，不管你成績(jī)是好還是差，不管你是美還是丑，都能時(shí)時(shí)發(fā)自內(nèi)心的微笑，以此來快樂自己，愉悅別人！你的生活將因微笑而美麗，你的人生將因微笑而成功！qcwa3ptgz7r4i30ka1dkaghn3xtkknbycudxqa7fhyi2chhi92tgkqcwa3ptgshls50clmtwn60eo8wgqv7xav2ohum32wgeauwydiawgmer4i30ka1dkaghn3xtkknbycudxqa7fhyi2chhi92tgkqcwa3ptgz7r4i30ka1dkagtgkqcwa3p tgz7r4i30ka1dkaghn

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