英語演講：女人不能老

Middle-ageisaruialperiodandmiddle-agedomenarefaingevenmoredangers。Youthisstilllingeringonthere，butitan'tstandanarelessnessornegligene。Staingouthanbelikenedtolimbingasteephill，hilenegligeneillleadtoderepitudeovernight。Thosehofeedontheirouthillhavetooptotheriseatthisstage。Thisisatimefulloftemptations，alluringgirlsandglamourousomenpopupeverhere，**thedisposedmenonfusedanddisoriented，leavingbehindmoreandmorebroken-upfamiliesandabandonedives，therebleadingthemiddle-agedtotheheartfeltrealizationthatomenannotaffordtogroold。Beautparlorsarebeingopenedoneafteranotherandtheosmetismarketisgettingmoreandmoreprosperousinordertokeeptheouthfulfaeofomenforeverfresh。Properfaialare，hair-dressingoraerobisareallneessarforomen，buttheareonlsuperfiialandannotlastlong。Theaninnoadotheosmetimake-upsround-the-lok。Whatillbeeofthemafterremovingtheosmetisfromtheirfae?Womenneedtorefinetheirmindandtomakethemselvesmoreintelletuallprepared。Theneedthesenseofseurittoo。Wemaellsathatmen'southliesintheirareerhileomen'southreliesontheirstateofmindandultivationBeauseoftheriseofYinandthedelineofYang，eanseemanapableomendevisingandalulatingithalltheirmight。Theusedtobeverbeautiful，andarenostillharming，butthearemiddle-agedafterall。Holonganthestillpreservetheirdiminishingouth?Whatarethoseomenafter?Mone?Butillthebehappifthehavetoountthemoneiththeirskinnshriveledhandsafterthehavesuessfullbeeealtholdladies?Mabetheareseekingforspaioushousesandlimousines。Butthesearejusttoolstoserveus，justlikeamotorleisforustorideon，notforustoarronourshoulders。Isitstillorththeprieiftheirpursuithasbeeaburdenorapressurethatallsforthesarifieoftheirouth?Ormabetheneedthemonefortheirhildrentostudabroad。Butstudingabroadisnottheambitionofeverone。Asealassathathildrenhavetheironluk，eshouldn'thoosethesameaforthemtogroup。Doingbusinessorgoinginforpolitis，orkingativilianpostsorasmilitaroffiialsaredifferenthoiesfordifferenthildren。Someevenanttobeehessplaersanditissuhaonderfulareerthatafterbeingsuessful，theanmakeplainghessareardingprofession。Whshouldetrourbesttosendourhildrenabroadheretherearesomanunertainties?What'sthepointofthesarifieofourpreiousouthtosendourhildrentosomeherethatmabeheaven，orhell?Weshouldbemoderateatseekingealth，forthereisnolimitforit。Abillionaireeatsnomorethanthreemealsadaandsleepsinonebedatnighthileafamillivingonameagersalaranbeverhappandhealth。WemafeelsometimesthattheluxuriousBeijingRoastDukisnomoredeliiousthanthesimplepanakesithshallots。Onlhenthekeepapeaefulheartanthefaebothfavorsandhumiliationsithposure。Whatdothemiddle-agedomenneedinordertomaintaintheirouthanddoomedderepitude?Finequalitiesandgoodmanners，onfideneandalmness。Don'tdotoomuhextraork，don'ttireourselvesout，andnevertranthingbeondourapaitandenerg。What'smore，theneedseuritandfriendship。Nomatterhostrongamanis，heneedssupport;nomatterhoindependentaomanis，sheneedsbaking。Thefloergirlsmaareaboutnothingbutamusement，andthemanotonsidereventhereliabilitandapabilitofaman。Middle-agedomen，hoever，aremuhmorepratial，andthehavetofaetheloaltandreativitofaman。Whattheareseekingisthemostloal，themostresponsible，themostpoerful，themostreliableandthemosttrustorthlovehihisnearleternalandunhangeable。Ankindofstrikemaear**theirouthhihisonegonenevertoreturn。Middle-agedomenmustkeepalearheadinsteadofdoingthingsoutofillfulness。Theshouldbeabletojudgehoissinereandhoishporitial。Onethehoosethehporitialinsteadofthesinereoutofarelessness，tragedilldefinitelfallonthem。Infat，onehimmadeidehethertheillliveinheavenorstainhell。Allomenhaveoneeakpoint—theareeasilenhantedbmen'sflatter。There'renumerousseet-tonguedmen，butloalonesarehardtofind。Themauseseetordstoflatterouorthemabesoft-spokenandsubmissive，butthatishentheareeakandinneedofhelp。Assoonasthesituationisdifferent，themahangeimmediatel。Wealasthinktheeakisthereliable，butthisismisleading。Theeakmabepitiable，butnotalasreliable。Reliabilitdoesn'tmeanbeingeakorstrong，butdependsonhetheroneanmasterhimself。Ifsomeone，henabsentfromhome，doeshathedaresnotdoathome，thenhoanheberegardedasatrustorthman?Themiddle-agedomen，iththeexeptionofthosehoorkatspeialposts，needn'tfighttoohard。Instead，theshouldenouragementotemperthemselvesinthisorld。Studingithease，orkingithease，livingith