中西方友誼文化差異辯析

1、中西友誼文化差異 Cultural differences between Chinese and Western cultures 中西友誼產(chǎn)生原因的差異中西友誼產(chǎn)生原因的差異 The difference between Chinese and Western friendship 中西友誼內(nèi)容差異中西友誼內(nèi)容差異 中國(guó)古代的莊子說(shuō)過(guò)：君子之交淡若水，小人之交甘如醴。 If the water light friendship between gentlemen, villain 西方有名言說(shuō)：沒(méi)有十全十美的朋友。 A friend without faults will never be

2、 found. 在中國(guó)有一種友情叫不打不相識(shí)！ In China there is a friendship called not to fight not to know 在西方有一種友情叫患難見(jiàn)真情。 In the West there is a friendship that is called a friend in need. Ways of making friends 中國(guó)有句話(huà)叫，相濡以沫不如相忘于江湖。 China saying to each other, as in a river. 丘吉爾說(shuō)過(guò)，沒(méi)有永遠(yuǎn)的朋友，只有永遠(yuǎn)的利益。 Churchill said, there

3、 is no eternal friends, only the interests of forever. Differences in the concept of friendship 無(wú)論對(duì)于中國(guó)人還是美國(guó)人，朋友都是非常重要的人際關(guān)系，正如我們中國(guó)人的一句友誼格言所說(shuō)：“沒(méi)有真摯朋友的人，是真正孤獨(dú)的人！”美國(guó)人對(duì)待友誼的看法也有類(lèi)似的格言：“沒(méi)有朋友，世界成了荒野”由此可見(jiàn)，朋友對(duì)于任何人而言，有多么地重要。?不同民族、不同文化卻持有不同的友誼觀。由于東西方文化的差異，在對(duì)待交朋結(jié)友這件事上，中國(guó)人的友誼觀與美國(guó)人的友誼觀存在著明顯的差異。?交友觀同民族、國(guó)度、文化心理等方面都有著

4、聯(lián)系。 Whether it is Chinese or Americans, friends are very important interpersonal relationships, as we Chinese Friendship motto said: there is no sincere friend of the people, is the real lonely people! Americans view friendship towards a similar motto: Withoutafriend, theworldisawilderness. (without

5、 a friend, the world is wilderness). thus, friends for anyone, how important. Different nations and different cultures have different views on friendship. Because of the cultural differences between the East and the west, there is a significant difference in the view of friendship between the Chines

6、e people and the American people. There are links between the concept of making friends and the people, the country, the cultural psychology and so on. Typical Chinese Friendship 山濤在司馬氏的晉朝做了大官，便想舉薦好朋友嵇康一起做官，然而山濤并不了解嵇康厭惡司馬氏，嵇康大怒，寫(xiě)了一篇 與山巨源絕交書(shū) ，聲稱(chēng)斷絕關(guān)系，然而到了最后，嵇康在自己彌留之際還是把自己唯一的兒子交給了山濤。 Shan Tao in the Ji

7、n Dynasty Sima became a high-ranking official, would like to recommend a good friend Ji Kang together official. However, Shan Tao do not understand Ji Kang aversion Sima, Ji Kang great anger, wrote in an article and Hill Giant source John book, claimed to break off the relationship. However, at the

8、end, Ji Kang on his deathbed or the his one and only son over to the Shan Tao. 俞伯牙與種子期 伯牙善鼓琴，鐘子期善聽(tīng)。伯牙鼓琴，志在高山，鐘子期曰：“善哉，峨峨兮若泰山！”志在流水，鐘子期曰：“善哉乎，洋洋兮若江河 ！”伯牙所念，鐘子期必得之。 伯牙游于泰山之陰，卒逢暴雨，止于巖下，心悲。乃援琴而鼓之。初為霖雨之操，更造崩山之音，曲每奏，鐘子期輒窮其趣。伯牙乃舍琴而嘆曰：“善哉，善哉，子之聽(tīng)夫！志想象猶吾心也。吾于何逃聲哉？” You are good at playing piano, listening to

9、good music. Ya drum, in the mountains, Zhong Ziqi said: good, if the Xi Taishan Mindanao mindanao! Aimed at water, Zhong said: good Zai Hu Xi Yangyang, if rivers! It shall be the Zhong ya. My tour in Taishan Yin, died every rainstorm, stop in the rock, sad heart. Is to help the piano and drum. At th

10、e beginning of those exercises, and make the mountains sound, every song played, its poor interest zhe zhong. He is Sheqin and sighed and said: good, good, listen to the husband! And my heart is still in my heart. I used to escape what sound? 典型的西方友誼 馬克思主義的二位創(chuàng)始人馬克思和恩格斯自1844年在巴黎結(jié)識(shí)時(shí)氣， 二個(gè)人共同為國(guó)際共產(chǎn)主義運(yùn)動(dòng)努力

11、奮斗， 在斗爭(zhēng)中結(jié)下了真誠(chéng)而無(wú)私的友誼； 40年間，他們精誠(chéng)合作，親密無(wú)間， 在對(duì)一切重大問(wèn)題的看法上保持了高度一致， 共同撰寫(xiě)了許多科學(xué)社會(huì)主義的經(jīng)典著作， 分居二地時(shí)，他們經(jīng)常通信聯(lián)系， 交流思想感情，相互鼓勵(lì)和支持； 為了資助馬克思從事專(zhuān)門(mén)的理論研究， 恩格斯違背自己的意愿去做生意， 掙來(lái)的錢(qián)用于接濟(jì)馬克思一家的生活， 馬克思說(shuō)：“我們之間存在的友誼是何等的珍貴!” 。 恩格斯說(shuō)：“馬克思是和我相交40年的最好的，最親密的朋友，他給我的教益是無(wú)法用語(yǔ)言表達(dá)的。” 二個(gè)人都為了結(jié)識(shí)了對(duì)方而自豪；他們的友誼超越了一切古人，成為國(guó)際共產(chǎn)主義運(yùn)動(dòng)史上的佳話(huà)。 Marxs two founders

12、 Marx and Engels since 1844 when he met in Paris, Two people work together to fight for the International Communist movement, Forged a sincere and unselfish friendship in the struggle; In 40 years, they cooperate, Maintain a high degree of consensus on all major issues, Wrote many classic works of s

13、cientific socialism, When they are separated, they often communicate with two places, Communicate thoughts and feelings, encourage and support each other; In order to help Marx to engage in specialized theoretical research, Engels went against his own will to do business, To earn money for the family to help Marx, Marx said: the friendship between us is how precious! Engels said: Marx and the intersection of 40 years of the best, most intimate friends, he give me