研究生英語應(yīng)用教程-上海交通大學(xué)出版社ideal mate

1、Ideal MateBy Wang Xichao; Zhang Lei Huang Yan; Liao Bingbing Shi Chaoyang In our lifetime, we would encounter many different people, relatives, friends, even passers-by about whom you dont care. For the wide meaning of ideal mate , everyone can give a different explanation. Maybe we could come up wi

2、th a very long list of qualities and attributes that we like for our ideal mates to possess. good-lookingromanticfinancially stablegood sense of humorpassionateconfidentconsiderategentle sharing a common hobby with us However, we must always keep in mind that every person is different and no one is

3、perfect. I think if you go in with a “l(fā)ist of requirements” you would never find one. So, face the reality and just let it be. Since this kind of mate is hard to find, the core issue for the ideal mate is the one who can understand me if we live together. At the same time , I will also try to unders

4、tand my mate. We may have disagreements, quarrels, or different life styles, but we understand each other. By understanding, the mate can be called the ideal one. “The most romantic thing I can imagine is to grow old with you.” As the song sings that, an ideal mate is the one with whom you can live

5、for a lifetime. Maybe he is not handsome, but he can better understand and support me when I make a choice. Maybe he is not strong, but he can give me the warmest hug when I feel cold and lost in desperation. Maybe he is not rich, but he has the tolerance of the heart for me and my family. George Be

6、rnard Shaw, the Nobel Prize Laureate in Literature once said that there is approximately twenty thousand candidates suitable to be ones lifetime partner at a moment. Its only a matter of your choice at the moment. If one has already developed a close, intimate and indepth relationship with the afore

7、 person, then the next ideal candidate will become ones good friend. However, if the relationship with the afore person is not deeply established, the foundation for a strong relationship is easily wavered. Thats when a change of heart occurs until a chosen one is selected amongst the pool of candid

8、ates, will the days of the floating heart end - the chapter of happiness begins. Actually, the image of an ideal mate has been formed based on the experiences during ones early lifetime. So, when you come across with someone who matches your image of ideal mate, you will be tantalized by himher unconsciously. There is no reason for falling in love with someone. It just begins. What you should do is getting ready for that and learning to run your lo