英語(yǔ)課體驗(yàn)式教學(xué)-15班-唐國(guó)強(qiáng),呂春楊,談增,張虎課件

MenArefromMarsWomenArefromVenusbackgroundstructurewordssentencesauthorJohnGrayHewasbornin1951HeisanAninternationallyrecognizedexpertinthefieldsofcommunication,relationships,andpersonalgrowth.Hehaswrittenseventeenbooksonrelationshipsandpersonalgrowth,fourofwhicharebest-sellersintheworld.

Thebookwaspublishedin1992.Itisprisedasthemostfamousbooksongenderemotionalrelationshipsintheworldbyfar.ThesalesvolumeandPopularityofthisbookcanevencontrastwiththeBible.Manyyoungpeoplerecognizeitasthe"Bible"whichcanmaintainaharmonyloveandahappymarriage.Itissaidthatthebookwillbemadeintoamovie.Whatdoyouthinkisthebiggestprobleminaloveaffair?1、Toomanyquarrelsandconflicts(26%)

2、havenotacitagreement(18%)

3、Thewomenhaveanothernewlove(14%)

4、cheatedbyherboyfreind(11%)

5、Themanhavenosenseofresponsibility(11%)

6、Heisnottherightmanforahusband(9%)

7、Thewomendon'twanttoassumeresponsibilityfortheloveaffair(8%)

8、sexlife(3%)

一、過(guò)多的爭(zhēng)吵和沖突(26%)二、沒(méi)有默契(18%)三、女方另有新歡(14%)四、受到男友欺騙(11%)五、男方?jīng)]有責(zé)任感(11%)六、他不是做丈夫的料(9%)七、女方自己不愿意承擔(dān)責(zé)任(8%)

八、性生活不滿意(3%)reasonsforbreakupofloveaffairAshortmovietellsus14differencesbetweengirlsandboysstructure呂春楊2111207045Smallproblems1.Weusuallybecomeangryorfrustratedwiththeoppositesexbecausewehaveforgottenthisimportanttruth(para4line6).Smallproblems2.Yet,it(para7line8)doeshappen.Smallproblems3.Menareverytouchyaboutthis(para11line4)becausetheissueofcompetenceissoveryimportanttothem.DeparttopartsPart1(para.1-7)Part2(para.8-20)Part3(para.21-26)threePart1(para.1-7)ThelovebetweentheVenusiansandMartiansismagical.Atfirstitfeelseternal,andweloveeverythingofeachother.Butveryfewpeopleareabletogrowinloveatlast.Part3(para.21-26)Differentsuggestionstomenandwomenmakemenandwomenindeedunderstandeachother.Withaword,remembermenarefromMarsandwomenarefromVenus.words相關(guān)短語(yǔ)：intuitivemanner直觀方式，直觀狀態(tài)，直覺(jué)方式intuitivenotion直覺(jué)概念counter-intuitivebehavior反直觀行為intuitiveapproach直覺(jué)方法intuitivejudgment直覺(jué)判斷intuitiveknowledge良知intuitiveorderquantity經(jīng)驗(yàn)定貨量intuitiverecoveryprocedure直覺(jué)校正過(guò)程intuitivethesisofprobability概率的直觀論點(diǎn)例句HeseemedtohaveanintuitiveknowledgeofhowIwasfeeling.他好像憑直覺(jué)就知道我的感受。Venusiansareveryintuitive,theypridethemselvesonbeingconsiderateoftheneedsandfeelingsofothers.女人具有敏銳的直覺(jué)，能處處為他人的需求和情感著想是她們引以為豪的事。例句Peoplesufferingfromamnesiadon'tforgettheirgeneralknowledgeofobjects.患有失憶癥的人不會(huì)忘記他們對(duì)物品的常識(shí)。Amnesiamercifullyobliteratedhismemoryoftheaccident.記憶喪失癥幸運(yùn)地抹掉了他關(guān)于那次事故的記憶。Fantasize[?f?nt??sa?z]vt.

想像；幻想；vi.

沉溺于幻想過(guò)去式：

fantasized過(guò)去分詞：

fantasized現(xiàn)在分詞：

fantasizing第三人稱單數(shù)：fantasizes派生詞：fantasist同義詞：

musedreamvisualizeenvisionvisionsinvent

daydreamimagineromanceFantasize[?f?nt??sa?z]例句2.做性幻想

Researchhasshownthatmenarelikelytofantasizefarmorefrequentlythanwomen.

研究表明男人性幻想的頻率要比女人高得多。Repression

[ri?pre??n]n.壓抑；約束；抑制，鎮(zhèn)壓復(fù)數(shù)：repressions

同義詞：constraint,tyranny,abstinencebondage,silence反義詞：freedom例句1.鎮(zhèn)壓；壓制；控制Repressionistheonlylastingphilosophy.鎮(zhèn)壓是唯一經(jīng)久耐用的哲學(xué)。2.(情感)壓抑，控制Hisrepressionbrokeout.他的壓抑終于爆發(fā)了。Recede[ri?si:d]vi.

后退；減弱；（價(jià)值，品質(zhì)等）跌落，低落，變壞；收回意見(jiàn)，退出（某種活動(dòng)）同義詞：drawback,dropoff,fallback,moveback反義詞：

advance,gain,gainground,goon詞根：ced=go,表示"行走,前進(jìn)"1.Adj.antecedent先行的;以前的(antecede[v.先行,先于]+ent……的→adj.先行的;以前的)unprecedented前所未有的(un+precedent[n.先例;慣例]+ed……的→無(wú)先例的)同根詞同根詞2.N.procedure程序;手續(xù)(pro在前+ced行走,前進(jìn)+ure表名詞→在前面走完的程序)precedent先例;慣例(precede[v.在先,優(yōu)于]+ent→預(yù)先走的東西→先例)同根詞3.V.secede脫離;退出(se分開(kāi)+ced行走,前進(jìn)+e→分開(kāi)走→脫離)recede撤回;交還[領(lǐng)土](re后+ced行走,前進(jìn)+e→向后走→撤退)retrocede交還,歸還(retro向后+ced走+e→往后走→把……歸還)例句1.退回;后退;遠(yuǎn)離Assherecededhewavedgoodbye.她離開(kāi)的時(shí)候他揮手告別。2.（質(zhì)量）下降;（問(wèn)題或疾病等）逐漸減弱，好轉(zhuǎn)JustasIstartedtothinkthatIwasnevergoingtogetwell,theillnessbegantorecede.正當(dāng)我開(kāi)始覺(jué)得自己永遠(yuǎn)都好不了了的時(shí)候，我的病開(kāi)始好轉(zhuǎn)了。例句3.（前額的頭發(fā)）脫落Thebartenderhadafloridfaceandarecedinghairline.酒吧男招待面色紅潤(rùn)，前額有點(diǎn)脫發(fā)。4.（常指牙齦因?yàn)楦腥荆┪sIfuntreated,thegumsrecede,becomeswollenandbleed...如果不進(jìn)行治療，牙齦會(huì)開(kāi)始萎縮、紅腫和出血。Unsolicited

[??ns??lisitid]adj.未被懇求的，主動(dòng)提供的同義詞：voluntary,option,unasked例句：Igivelotsofunsolicitedpersonaladvicetoco-workers.我經(jīng)常多管閑事，給同事出瘦主意。Humiliate

[hju?milieit]vt.

使蒙羞，使丟臉，使出丑；屈辱，羞辱詞根：hum=earth,表示“土,地”同義詞：

shame,dishonor,offend,mortify,insult,disgrace,embarrass同義詞辨析disgrace,humiliate,shame,dishonour這些動(dòng)詞均含“使丟臉，使受恥辱”之意。disgrace：側(cè)重在別人，尤其在眾人面前丟臉。humiliate：強(qiáng)調(diào)受辱者自尊心的損壞。shame：指由不光彩或不道德的行為引起的慚愧感或羞恥感。dishonour：有時(shí)可與disgrace換用，但前者是指因失去榮譽(yù)所致。例句1、Shewashumiliatedbecauseherchildrenbehavedsobadly.她為她的孩子表現(xiàn)不好而感到羞辱。2、Whatrighthadtheytobullyandhumiliatepeoplelikethis?憑什么把人欺侮到這個(gè)地步呢？Odds

[?dz]n.

希望，可能性；幾率，勝算；逆境同義詞：possibility,probability常用詞組：itmakesnoodds：(非正式)沒(méi)有關(guān)系，無(wú)關(guān)緊要lay(或give)odds：（打賭時(shí)）讓對(duì)方一籌overtheodds：（尤指價(jià)格）超過(guò)正常的takeodds：占優(yōu)勢(shì)例句1.機(jī)會(huì)；可能性；幾率Theoddsarethatyouaregoingtofail.你很可能會(huì)失敗。2.（賭博中的）賠率GavinJones,whoput￡25onEugene,atoddsof50to1,haswon￡1,250.加文·瓊斯以50比1的賠率賭尤金勝，他下注25英鎊，贏了1,250英鎊。例句3.atodds（與…）不和；（與…）有矛盾；（與…）意見(jiàn)不一致HewasatoddswithhisPrimeMinister.他與首相不和。4.theoddsareagainst

（成功）可能性小，希望渺茫Hereckonedtheoddsareagainsttheschemegoingahead.他認(rèn)為目前實(shí)施這項(xiàng)計(jì)劃的希望渺茫。

Sentence張虎1Wedesirethemtowantwhatwewantandfeelthewaywefeel.Wemistakenlyassumethatifourpartnersloveustheywillreactandbehaveincertainwaysthewayswereactandbehavewhenwelovesomeone.（Para.4line7）我們渴望他們和自己有共同的需求和感受。我們錯(cuò)誤地假定，如果伴侶愛(ài)我們，那他們的行為反應(yīng)就會(huì)跟我們對(duì)他們愛(ài)意舉動(dòng)和反應(yīng)一模一樣。2Fallinginloveisalwaysmagical.Itfeelseternal,asiflovewilllastforever.Wenaivelybelievethatsomehowweareexemptfromtheproblemsourparentshad,freefromtheoddsthatlovewilldie,assuredthatitismeanttobeandthatwearedestinedtolivehappilyeverafter.(Para.5)戀愛(ài)總是奇異的，它讓人感到永恒，好像愛(ài)情至死不渝。我們天真地相信自己可以避免父母親會(huì)有的問(wèn)題，不會(huì)遇上愛(ài)情死亡的機(jī)會(huì)，確信愛(ài)情就是兩人在一起，注定永遠(yuǎn)幸福的共同生活。3Fromthosewhoareabletosustainlovelongenoughtogetmarried,only50percentstaymarried.Outofthosewhostaytogether,possiblyanother50percentarenotfulfilled.Theystaytogetheroutofloyaltyandobligationorfromthefearofstartingover.（Para.7line4）那些能夠維持長(zhǎng)久愛(ài)情直到結(jié)婚的人們，他們之間只有50%人們沒(méi)有離婚。除去那些在一起的人，可能另外的50%也是不能夠?qū)崿F(xiàn)的。他們彼此沒(méi)有忠誠(chéng)沒(méi)有責(zé)任的生活在一起，或是由于對(duì)重新開(kāi)始的恐懼繼續(xù)一起生活。4Thisishardforamantocomprehend.Hecancomeclosetounderstandingawoman'sexperienceofsharingandrelatingbycomparingittothesatisfactionhefeelswhenhewinsarace,achievesagoal,orsolvesaproblem.(Para.16line3)男人很難理解這點(diǎn)。他只能藉由贏得賽跑、達(dá)到目標(biāo)、解決問(wèn)題等的滿足感經(jīng)驗(yàn)，試著接近、了解女人分享與建立關(guān)系的經(jīng)驗(yàn).5Awomanhasnoconceptionofthismalesensitivitybacauseforheritisanotherfeatherinherhatifsomeoneofferstohelpher.Itmakesherfeellovedandcherished.Butofferinghelptoamancanmakehimfeelincompetent,weak,andevenunloved.(Para.19)而女人全然無(wú)視于男人的這種敏感度，她認(rèn)為若有人肯幫助她，那是在她的帽子上添飾羽毛。讓她覺(jué)得自己可愛(ài)又受珍視；男人卻以為接受幫助是軟弱、沒(méi)能力、不可愛(ài)的表現(xiàn)。6Asaresulthefeelsmistrusted,unappreciated,andstopscaring.Hiswillingnesstolistenunderstandablylessens.(Para.20line2)因而感到不受信任、不被感激，然后從此停止照顧?？衫斫獾氖牵敢鈨A聽(tīng)的熱情必