課文unit5loveandmarriage市公開課一等獎省賽課微課金獎?wù)n件

NewTimesBook1CollegeEnglish1/68Unit5LoveandMarrige2/68TextLearningNewWords&Expressions3/68TextLearningReadingQuestions4/68

Whydoestheauthorsay“datinganotherwoman”isthesecrettokeepinglovealivein myrelationshipwithmywife?ReadingQuestions5/68Sample

Theotherwomantheauthordatesishismother.Sheistheonewhomhelovesdeeplyandtheoneloveshimgreatly.Butundergreatpressurefromworkandlife,theauthortendstokeephimselfbusyallthetime.Theauthoroftencomplainsabouthowquicklytimeflies.Hisscheduleissotightthathedoesn’tfindmuchtimetoseehismotherandlearntofullyenjoyeverydaylife.Fortunately,however,throughthedatewithhismother,theauthorfeelsniceandrelaxed,andhelearnstheimportanceofslowingdown,whichisthesecrettokeepinglovealivebetweenhiswifeandhim.ReadingQuestions6/68TextStructure

PartOne

DatinganotherwomanwasthesecretI’vediscoveredtokeepinglovealivebetweenmywifeandI.

PartTwo Istarteddatingmymotherandwebothgottounderstandeachotherbetterandloveeachothermore.

PartThree Spendingtimewithmymotherhastaughtmetheimportanceofslowing

down.(Para.1):(Para.2~7):(Para.8):7/68TextLearningTextUnderstanding8/68TextUnderstandingThat“OtherWoman”inMyLifePara.1

Para.2Para.3

Para.4Para.5

Para.6Para.7

Para.89/68

After22yearsofmarriage,I'vediscoveredthesecret(tokeepinglovealive)

inmyrelationshipwithmywife,Peggy:Istarteddatinganotherwoman.

Paragraph110/68After22yearsofmarriage,I'vediscoveredthesecret(tokeepinglovealive)inmyrelationshipwithmywife,Peggy:Istarteddatinganotherwoman.(Para.1,L.1)SentenceStudy1-1

keep

love<alive>aliveadj.“活潑;有活力”,（感情，品質(zhì)）繼續(xù)存在做love賓語補足語。thesecret(tokeepinglovealive)中to為介詞，keepinglovealive

是動名詞短語

解析：11/68live、alive、living都有“活、有生命”意思，與dead意義相反。2）

live通常只作前置定語，且普通用于動物alive、living不但可作定語（alive只能置于名詞后；living普通置于名詞前，也可置于名詞后），也能夠作表語。12/68Thisisalive(=living)fish.(=Thisisafishalive.)這是一條活魚。（指動物，且作定語時，三者均可用）Who'sthegreatestmanalive(=livingman)?誰是當今最偉大人物？（指人，不能用live）Thefishisstillalive(=living)那條魚還活著。（指動物作表語時不能用live）。13/68只有l(wèi)iving前加the方可表示“活著人”Thelivingaremoreimportanttousthanthedead.活著人對我們來說比死去人更主要。living活著，尤指（現(xiàn)存）仍在使用livinglanguage現(xiàn)行語言3)live現(xiàn)場直播，實況轉(zhuǎn)播(可做定語、表語)alivebroadcast現(xiàn)場廣播thisshowwaslive這個節(jié)目是實況轉(zhuǎn)播14/68SentenceStudy1-2daten.日期,日子，時期,約會

vt.約會,定日期datesb.=haveadatewithsb與某人約會Ihaveadatewithmygirl-friendtonight.

我今晚和女朋友有個約會。dateback追溯到；始于ThetowndatesbacktoRomantimes.這座城鎮(zhèn)建于古羅馬時代。*outofdate不再流行;過時*uptodate當代;時新15/68SentenceStudy1-3經(jīng)歷22年婚姻，我發(fā)覺怎樣同妻子佩吉保持愛戀關(guān)系秘密：去約會另一個女人。譯文：After22yearsofmarriage,I'vediscoveredthesecret

tokeepinglovealiveinmyrelationshipwithmywife,Peggy:Istarteddatinganotherwoman.(Para.1,L.1)16/68QuestionsPara1:Didmywifeagreewithmydatinganotherwoman?

Yes.Infactitismywifewhoencouragedmetodatetheotherwoman.17/68

The“otherwoman”mywifewasencouragingmetodateismymother,a72-year-oldwidowwhohaslivedalonesincemyfatherdied20yearsago.Rightafterhisdeath,Imoved2,500milesawaytoCaliforniaandstartedmyownfamilyandcareer.WhenImovedbacknearmyhometownsixyearsago,IpromisedmyselfthatIwouldspendmoretimewithMom.Butwiththedemandsofmyjobandthreekids,Inevergotaroundtoseeinghermuchbeyondfamilyget- togethersandholidays.

Paragraph218/68The“otherwoman”（mywifewasencouragingmetodate）ismymother,awidow(whohaslivedalonesincemyfatherdied20yearsago).1、datesb.與某人約會（=haveadatewithsb.)2、encouragesb.todo勉勵某人做某事3、現(xiàn)在完成時have/hasdone+since+普通過去時4、mymother,a72-year-oldwidow同位語

72-year-old基數(shù)詞-名詞單數(shù)=adj

athree-legtable

whom19/68

Rightafterhisdeath,Imoved2500milesawaytoCaliforniaandstartedmyownfamilyandcareer.(Para.2,L.2)SentenceStudy2-1right:adv.

immediately馬上，馬上*

Imustanswerthatphone,butI’llbe

right

back.

我得去接電話，馬上就回來。就在父親逝世后，我搬到了2500英里以外加利福尼亞，成家立業(yè)。20/68Butwiththedemandsofmyjobandthreekids,Inevergotaroundtoseeinghermuchbeyondfamilyget-togethersandholidays.1.withthedemandsof=becauseof2.getaroundto(doing)sth找出時間做某事

Ihopetogetroundtoansweringyourrequestnextweek.我希望下星期能抽出空來回復(fù)你要求。3.Beyondprep.1）go（far）beyond(遠遠)超出，超越

bebeyondsb.為某人所不能了解

2）except除…以外（普通用于含疑問或否定意義結(jié)構(gòu)中）IwilldonothingbeyondwhatIamtoldtodo.

除去指示我做那部分工作，其它我一概不干。21/684.gettogether（為社交或合作目標而）聚集，集合get-togethern.(非正式)聚會,聯(lián)歡會,會談gathering22/68QuestionsPara2:DidIspendmuchtimewithmymother?

No.Mymotherlivealone20yearsago,andInevergetaroundtoseeinghermuchbecauseofthedemandofmyjobandkids23/68

ShewassurprisedwhenIcalledandsuggestedthetwoofusgoouttodinnerandamovie.“What'swrong?”sheasked.Mymotherthinksanything（outoftheordinary）

signalsbadnews.

“Ithoughtitwouldbenicetospendsometimewithyou,”Isaid.“Justthetwoofus.”

“I'dlikethatalot.”shereplied.

Paragraph324/68ShewassurprisedwhenIcalledandsuggestedthetwoofusgoouttodinnerandamovie.“What'swrong?”sheasked.Mymotherthinksanything(outoftheordinary)signalsbadnews.“Ithoughtitwouldbenicetospendsometimewithyou,”Isaid.“Justthetwoofus.”“I'dlikethata lot.”shereplied.shouldreply=answeroutoftheordinary不日常,非凡25/68Ordinary，common,normal,general,averagecommon其反義詞為“rare”。普通尋常常見---能夠這么了解：哪里都能夠看到滿大街都是eg:it‘sacommonbag,andyoucanfinditineverystore這包很普通哪個商店都有賣usual通常,日常;慣常----能夠這么了解：昨天是這么前天是這么大前天也是這么這時就用usual屢見不鮮。用usual修飾東西能夠是很奇怪或不可了解不過因為見得多了所以見怪不怪eg:it'susualforustoseehimcryingnaked.對我們來說，他光著屁股大哭是很日常事26/68ordinary:通常,日常----能夠這么了解：東西分3種，好普通差而ordinary就是其中那個“普通”，它可能不常見它可能不尋常但它是普通不是好不是壞只是大路貨eg:Thenoveldescribesthewayoflifeoftheordinarypeoplethere.這部小說描寫那里普通人生活方式normal:正常,正規(guī),標準----能夠這么了解：這個就很好區(qū)分拉正常狀態(tài)標準常態(tài)(人精神,身體)正常發(fā)育eg:Thedoctorsaidthechild'stemperaturewasnormal.醫(yī)生說孩子體溫正常27/68average意為“平均”“中等,普通,日?！北热?theaverageage平均年紀28/68

generalgeneral側(cè)重“普遍”之意，表示在大多數(shù)人或物中流行并受到關(guān)注，不含有“地位低下”之意，其反義詞為specific。如

Thereisageneralelectioninthatcountryeverythreeyears.

在那個國家每三年就有一次普選/大選。

Ihavegotthegeneralideaofwhathesaidjustnow.

我已明白了他剛才所說大致意思。29/68NewWordssuggest

（advise,propose)vt.

提議，提議(that主語shoulddo)Isuggestthatweshouldhavearest.vt.使想起,暗示,表明*Hiscoolresponsesuggestedthathe

didn'tlike

theidea.

他反應(yīng)冷淡表明他并不喜歡這個主意。

【注意】

suggest表示“提議”時后接從句要用虛擬語氣，而表示“暗示，表明”時則不用虛擬語氣。30/68SentenceStudy4-1 動詞suggest

后賓語從句中要求用虛擬語氣結(jié)構(gòu)，用來表示提議。形式為（should）+動詞原形。所以，本句中suggest后為省略that賓語從句,從句中g(shù)o前省略should，為虛擬式。解析：4.ShewassurprisedwhenIcalledandsuggested

thetwoofusgoouttodinner andamovie.(Para.3,L.1~2)我打電話給母親，提議我們倆外出一起吃飯、看電影，她感到很詫異。31/68Herexpressionsuggestedthatshe____angry,so

Isuggestedthatshe_____awalkintheopenair.Ashouldbe;tookBshouldbe;shouldtakeCwas;wouldbeDwas;shouldtake√32/68Para3: WhydidmymotherfeelsurprisedwhenIcalledher?BecauseallthoseyearsIspendlittletimewithmymother,thefactthatIcalledherandsuggestedadateseemedsomethingoutofordinary,andmaybesignaledbadnews.

Questions33/68

WhenIpulledintoherdriveway,shewaswaitingbythedoorwithhercoaton.Herhairwascurled,andshewassmiling.“ItoldmyladyfriendsIwasgoingoutwithmyson,andtheywereallimpressed,”shesaidasshegotintomycar.“Theycan'twaittohearaboutourevening.”Paragraph434/68NewWordsimpressvt.給……深刻印象impresssb.(withsth.)：haveafavorableeffectonsb給予某人深刻印象beimpressedby[at,with]被深深打動[感動]impressonsb.

sth.使某人了解某事主要性，使銘記

Myfatherimpressonmetheimportanceofhardwork.我父親要我切記努力工作主要性。35/68

WhenIpulledintoherdriveway,shewaswaitingbythedoor[withhercoaton].Herhairwascurled,andshewassmiling.“ItoldmyladyfriendsIwasgoingoutwithmyson,andtheywereallimpressed,”shesaidasshegotintomycar.“Theycan'twaittohearaboutourevening.”pullinto(機動車輛）駛進某處hearabout得悉,聽說

withhercoaton獨立結(jié)構(gòu)（帶有自己邏輯主語結(jié)構(gòu)）With/without+名/代詞+（分詞、形容詞、副詞、不定式、介詞短語）I’mteachingwiththelightson.

我正在講課，燈亮著。I’mteachingwiththewindowsopen.

我正在講課，窗戶開著。I’mteachingwithmystudentstalking.我正在講課，學(xué)生在說話。Paragraph436/68Para4: Whatwasmymother’sfeelingtowardsourdate?Shefelthappy,excitedandlookedforwardtothedate.

Questions37/68

Wedidn'tgoanywherefancy,justaneighborhoodplacewherewecouldtalk.Sincehereyesnowseeonlylargeshapesandshadows,Ihadtoreadthemenuforbothofus.“Iusedtobethemenureaderwhenyouwerelittle,”shesaid.“Thenit'stimeforyoutorelaxandletmereturnthefavor,”Isaid.Wehadanicetalkoverdinner，justcatchinguponeachother'slives.Wetalkedforsolongthatwemissedthemovie.“I'llgooutwithyouagain,”mymothersaidasIdroppedheroff,“Butonlyifyouletme buydinnernexttime.”Iagreed.

Paragraph538/68SentenceStudy5-2我們沒有去高檔餐館，只在附近找了一個便于說話地方。

Wedidn‘tgoanywherefancy,justaneighborhoodplace（wherewecouldtalk）.(Para.5,L.1)39/68Sincehereyesnowseeonlylargeshapesandshadows,Ihadtoreadthemenuforbothofus.“Iusedtobethemenureaderwhenyouwerelittle,”shesaid.“Thenit'stimeforyoutorelaxandletmereturnthefavor,”Isaid.usedtodo過去經(jīng)常做某事returnthefavor還(某人）人情40/68Wehadanicetalkoverdinner，justcatchinguponeachother'slives.Wetalkedforsolongthatwemissedthemovie.“I'llgooutwithyouagain,”mymothersaidasIdroppedheroff,“Butonlyifyouletmebuydinnernexttime.”Iagreed.catchupon（使）掌握（最新消息）dropsb.off讓某人下汽車

pickup搭便車[擴展]dropbehind落后

dropby順便訪問dropout從比賽、俱樂部或?qū)W校退出41/68Wehadanicetalkoverdinner，justcatchinguponeachother’slives.

(Para5,L.5-6)SentenceStudy7-1over

此處為介詞，表示“在做或從事…時候”，如：

achatovercoffee.喝著咖啡聊天“…catchinguponeachother’slives.”為現(xiàn)在分詞短語做伴隨狀語，表示同時進行動作。解析：我們邊吃邊談，談得很好,只是交談些彼此生活情況。42/68onlyifonlyif中，only是中心詞,而if則只是用來連接從句，所以，它表示“只有…(才)；只有在…時候，唯一條件是…”意思。對“條件”限制更嚴，增強主句語勢。Iwillcomehomeonlyifyoucomewithme.=Iwillonlycomehomeifyoucomewithme.只有你跟我一起走，我才回家。

onlyif=only...if，表示唯一條件，但意思不變。onlyif引導(dǎo)狀語從句置于主句之前，主句要用倒裝語序Onlyifyoucomewithme,willIcomehome.ifonly表示強烈愿望或遺憾，用在虛擬語氣中，譯為“希望”、“要是……該多好啊”IfonlyIwereabird!43/68Para5:1.Whatdoesthephrase“returnthefavor”meaninthisparagraph?2.Whowillpayforthedinnernexttime?WhenIwaslittle,mymotherusedtoreadthemenuforme,butnowshegotsomethingwrongwithhereyesandcouldn'tseethemenuclearly,soIreadthemenutoherinreturn.

Mymother.

Questions44/68 “Howwasyourdate?”mywifeaskedwhenIgothomethatevening.“Nice...nicerthanIthoughtitwouldbe,”Isaid.Shesmiledhertold-you-so

smile.同源賓語

dreamawonderfuldream做美夢

liveahappylife過著幸福生活

sleepasoundsleep熟睡，睡得極甜

smileahappysmile幸福地笑了told-you-so預(yù)料之中，早說過(Ihavetoldyouso)Paragraph645/68Para6: Whydidmywifesmiledhertold-you-sosmile?Becauseshehadexpectedthatmydatingwithmymotherwouldbeveryniceandhelpful.

Questions46/68

MomandIgooutfordinneracoupleoftimesamonth.NowIknowwhatitwaslikeforhertoworkinafactoryduringWorldWarII.Iknowhowshemetmyfatherthere.Ican'tgetenoughofthesestories.Theyareimportanttome,apartofmyhistory.Wealsotalkaboutthefuture.Becauseofhealthproblems,mymotherworriesaboutthedaysahead.“Ihavesomuchlivingtodo,”shetoldmeonce.“Ineedtobetherewhilemygrandchildrengrowup.Idon'twanttomissanyofit.”

Paragraph747/681.couplen.夫妻，一對，一雙acoupleof三兩個,幾個，一些(=several,some)apairof

：一對2.aheadadv.Goahead!前進，繼續(xù)aheadoftime提前=inadvance48/68MomandIgooutfordinneracoupleoftimesamonth.NowIknowwhatitwaslikeforhertoworkinafactoryduringWorldWarII.Iknowhowshemetmyfatherthere.Ican'tgetenoughofthesestories.Theyareimportanttome,apartofmyhistory.toworkinafactoryduringWorldWarII

waslikewhat.(what做介詞like賓語，what應(yīng)放在句首）can’tgetenoughofsth聽/用/吃...不夠Ican'tgetenoughofthesestories.我對這些故事百聽不厭cannot...enough不論怎樣...都不夠e.g.Icannotthankyouenough.感恩不盡。haveenoughof(對某人或某事)感到厭煩49/68Wealsotalkaboutthefuture.Becauseofhealthproblems,mymotherworriesaboutthedaysahead.“Ihavesomuchlivingtodo,”shetoldmeonce.“Ineedtobetherewhilemygrandchildrengrowup.Idon'twanttomissanyofit.”worryabout擔憂,煩惱living

n.生計,生存之道earn/makeone'sliving謀生Hemadealivingbywriting.他靠寫作謀生。50/68Para7:1.WhatdidmymotherandItalkaboutwhenweweredating?WetalkedaboutherlifebeforeIwasborn,itisapartofmyhistory.Wealsotalkaboutthefuture.

Questions51/68

ItendtofillmycalendartothebrimasIstruggletofitfamily,careerandfriendshipsintomylife.Ioftencomplainabouthowquicklytimeflies.Spendingtimewithmymomhastaughtmethe importanceofslowingdown.

tendtodo傾向于做…，有…趨勢,易于做某事Womentendtolivelongerthanmen.女人多比男人長壽。Paragraph852/68SentenceStudy9-3忙于應(yīng)付家庭生活、事業(yè)和朋友關(guān)系等種種事情，我日程表總是排得滿滿。ItendtofillmycalendartothebrimasIstruggletofitfamily,careerandfriendshipsintomylife.fill

mycalendartothebrim

把日程表排得滿滿fill

......

tothebrim

把...填滿fitsthinto抽閑做,找到做某事時間Ihadtofittenappointmentsintooneday.

我要在一天里安排10個約會53/68Ioftencomplainabouthowquicklytimeflies.Spendingtimewithmymomhastaughtmetheimportanceofslowingdown.SentenceStudy10-1

slowdown:放慢速度,此處意為“降低活動/工作等”。

Youmustslowdownyourcar.

你必須把車子開慢。與母親共度時光，使我知道了放慢生活節(jié)奏主要。54/68Exercises

ReadingComprehension

Vocabulary55/681．Directions:Choosethebestanswerforeachofthefollowingitems.1)Theauthorstarteddatinghismotherbecause__________.A.hefeltsorryforhismotherB.hismotherwaslonelyC.hiswifeencouragedhimtodosoD.hehadmorefreetime2)Whentheauthorsuggestedadatetohismother,hismother___________.accepteditimmediatelywassurprisedwasworriedD.wascurious

ReadingComprehensionCB56/683)Thelines“Shewaswaitingbythedoorwithhercoaton.Herhairwascurled,andshewassmiling.”（Para.4,L.1~2）suggeststhefollowingEXCEPTthat___________.A.hismotherlookedforwardtothedateB.hismotherwasexcitedC.hismotherwashappyD.hismotherwasnervous4)Accordingtothispassage,whichofthefollowingisNOTtrue?A.TheauthorhadbeeninCaliforniafor14years.B.Theauthorandhismotherhadnicetalksoverdinners.C.Theauthorandhismothertookturnspayingdinners.D.Theauthorandhismotherwerehopefulabouttheirfuture.

ReadingComprehensionDD57/685)Thelastlineofthepassageimpliesthat___________.

A.theauthorhaslearnedtorelaxmoreB.theauthorhaslearnedtokeeplovealivebetweenhiswifeandhimC.theauthorhaslearnedtodothingsslowlyD.theauthorhaslearnedtodriveatalowspeed

2.Directions:

Readthroughthetextandcompletethefollowingstatements.Whatisthesecrettheauthorhasdiscoveredtokeepinglovealivebetweenhiswifeandhim?

Thesecretis___________________ReadingComprehensionA

datinganotherwoman.

58/68Whydidn’ttheauthorseehismothermuchinthepastsixyears?

Because______________________tookupmuchofhistime.Whywashismothersurprisedwhenhersonsuggestedadinnerandamovie?Becauseshethoughthissuggestion___________________________________________________Whatdidthemotherandhersontalkabout?Theytalkedabout___________________________Whatdidtheauthorlearnfromhismother?

Helearnedtheimportanceof____________ReadingComprehension

bothhisjobandhisthreekidstheordinary/unusualandasignalofbadnews.

eachother’slivesandalsothefuture.slowingdown.

wassomethingoutof59/68SummaryoftheTextDirection:Fillintheblanksaccordingtowhatyourhavejustheard.

After22yearsofmarriage,Ifoundthe1)_______tokeepinglovealiveinmymarriage,thatis,Istart2)_______anotherwoman.The“otherwoman”ismymother,a72-year-old3)_______whohaslivedalonefor20years.Becauseofthe4)__________ofmyjobandfamily,Ididn’tfindmuchtimetoseemymother.Soshewas5)__________whenIsuggestedadatewithher.Wedidn’tgoanywherefancy,justa6)_______________placewherewecouldtalk.Ireadthe7)_______toher,andwehadanicetalkoverdinner.ReadingComprehensionsecret

datingwidowdemandssurprisedneighborhoodmenu60/68

SummaryoftheText

Bothofusfeelwonderfulaboutourdate,andfromthenonwegooutfordinner8)____________timesamonth.Iamveryinterestedinthestoriesaboutherpastlife;wealsotalkaboutthefuture.Ialwaysfillmy9)__________tothebrimandoftencomplainabouthowquicklytimeflies.Whilespendingtimewithmymomhastaughtmetheimportanceof10)______________.ReadingComprehensionacoupleof

calendarslowingdown61/681.Directions:

Choosetheoneanswerthatbestcompleteseachsentencefromthefourchoicesgivenbelow.

1)Gauguin（高庚）selectedpaintingasa

whenhewasinhisthirties.A.job

B.work

C.profession

D.career2)There’sa________ofgirlswaitingforyououtside.A.pairB.doubleC.coupleD.few3)Weweredressedupforthepartybutshewasstillinher_________clothes.A.commonB.ordinaryC.normalD.average4)Theworkers’________forahigherpaywererefusedbytheemployers.A.demandsB.inquiryC.desireD.needs5)Father_________onmethevalueofhardwork.A.toldB.affectedC.impressedD.focusedVocabularyDCBAC62/682．Directions:Completethesentenceswiththewordsorphrasesgivenbelow.Changetheformwherenecessary.

favorsignalgetaroundtoslowdownimpresscatchupondemandoutoftheordinary1)I’mverybusyatthemomentbutIhopeto________answeringyourletternextweek.2)Youneedto___________oryou’llgetill.3)Onecandidate_________uswithherrichknowledge.

4)Werelyonnewsourcesofenergytomeet__________.

Vocabularygetaroundto

slowdown

impressed

demand

63/685)Thedefeatof