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1、Part II: Success is to be your best selfCaree Go 的目的和核心2本講目標(biāo)本講目標(biāo)(1)了解什么是成功了解什么是成功(2)了解成功的關(guān)鍵要素了解成功的關(guān)鍵要素(3)了解如何達(dá)到成功、自信和快樂(lè)的理想境界了解如何達(dá)到成功、自信和快樂(lè)的理想境界3(1)了解什么是成功了解什么是成功4What is Success?Brainstorming: What do you think first when mention success? Please describe success in just one sentence5What is Success
2、Some Answers“Find Your Mr. or Mrs. Rightand Fall in Love”“Travel to Paris and London with Your Family” “GPA 3.8/4.0,Top 5 of All |Students ”“CET 6 with Excellence, MCSE/MCSD”“Elected as Students Committee Chairman”“Have Your Own Big House and Drive to Work”“Employee of the Year and Get Promotion”“Ge
3、t Offer from Fortune 500”“Oversea Training, MBA Sponsored by Company”Individual EntrepreneuershipSuccessful StudentSuccessful Personal LifeSuccessful Public Life心態(tài)境界心態(tài)境界SocialEntrepreneuershipCorporateEntrepreneuership6What is Success?Success is not to be always better than othersSuccess is to be yo
4、ur best self-Kai-Fu Lee(Handout)從自我心態(tài)的角度定義成功:從自我心態(tài)的角度定義成功:了解自己、肯定自己,做能在社會(huì)全局中給自己了解自己、肯定自己,做能在社會(huì)全局中給自己定位的人。定位的人。7Be Your Best SelfPublic LifeHow we are at work and in other public placesConsists of various works, service, labor, ministry, and leisure activities Private LifeDeep Inner LifeWhat goes on
5、in our heart and our headOnes own inner life and beliefsWhat goes on in our homes and when nobody else is aroundConsists of intimacy, sexuality, family, and friendshipWe all have three lives(生活的三個(gè)層面生活的三個(gè)層面).Continous Improvement based on your current statusSuccess is self improvement, self satisfact
6、ionSuccess is to be better than yesterday成功就是達(dá)到生活三個(gè)層面的統(tǒng)一,且不斷提高和完善的過(guò)程成功就是達(dá)到生活三個(gè)層面的統(tǒng)一,且不斷提高和完善的過(guò)程(Handout)Deep InnerLife毛、鄧、明星、名人毛、鄧、明星、名人全職太太全職太太禪師、和尚、牧師等宗教人士禪師、和尚、牧師等宗教人士8(1)了解什么是成功了解什么是成功(2)了解成功的關(guān)鍵要素了解成功的關(guān)鍵要素(3)了解如何達(dá)到成功、自信和快樂(lè)的理想境界了解如何達(dá)到成功、自信和快樂(lè)的理想境界9Key Elements of SuccessWhat you learnt from schoo
7、l- Mathematics, English, Accounting, History, Geographic “What to, Why to” element of successKeep continue learning after schoolWhat you learnt from real-world- Presentation skills, communication skills, people management skillsCan also be trained- JA success skills program“How to” element of succes
8、sWhat you can only learn from yourselfLearn throughout ones life“Want to” element of successWhat wed like to talk hereAttitudeKnowledgeSkillsSuccess 諾獎(jiǎng)的有限理諾獎(jiǎng)的有限理性:成功就是性:成功就是時(shí)間注意力時(shí)間注意力Deep InnerLifeSkillsAttitudeKnowledge10What is Attitude? SkillAttitude(Handout)潛意識(shí)潛意識(shí)意識(shí)意識(shí)Deep InnerLife113 Levels of
9、AttitudePersonal charactersAlso the values of many successful companiesFundamental for successEQ is even more important than IQIQ is nature born, while EQ can be learntMost important to be a successful leaderWhat great people have in addition to common charactersIncluding humility, persistence and c
10、ourage態(tài)度的三個(gè)層面的核心EQ and LeadershipGood To GreatBasic CharactersEQ and Leadership12Basic CharactersConsistently earn the trust of others Maintain confidentiality of information Readily admit mistakes Do what they say they will do Share credit for achievement with those involved Take responsibilitySet
11、your own goalImprove your work methodsPromote and present yourselfShare your achievement and what you learnt with your colleaguesCarry your own weather with youFoster candid discussions Share information appropriately and quickly Encourage others to express their viewpoints Maintain objectivity when
12、 conflict arises and dont personalizeShows respect for others viewpoints View each experience as an opportunity for learning Set measurable and challenging goals Look for projects that stretch abilities and foster growth Be visionary but not impractical (Handout)仁義禮智信仁義禮智信SelfChallengeOpenCommunicat
13、ionHonesty and Integrity Be Proactive13EQ & LeadershipKnowing your internal states, preferences, resources, and intuitions - Recognizing your emotions and their effects- Knowing your strengths and limits- A strong sense of your self-worth and capabilitiesAwareness of others feelings, needs, and
14、concerns - Sensing others feelings and perspectives and taking an active interest in their concerns - Sensing others development needs and bolstering their abilities Managing your internal states, impulses, and resources - Keeping disruptive emotions and impulses in check - Taking responsibility for
15、 personal performance - Maintaining standards of honesty and integrity Adeptness at inducing desirable responses in others- Nurturing instrumental relationships - Working with others toward shared goals - Creating group synergy in pursuing collective goals (Handout)EmpathySelf-AwarenessEmpathycommun
16、ication skillsBuild Shared Vision14海奇與葛德納人際智能的四大要素 (1)組織能力。這是領(lǐng)導(dǎo)者的必備技巧,包括群體動(dòng)員與協(xié)調(diào)能力。劇院的導(dǎo)演與制作人、軍隊(duì)指揮官及任何組織的領(lǐng)導(dǎo)者多具備這種能力,表現(xiàn)在孩子身上則常是游戲場(chǎng)上的帶頭者。 (2)協(xié)商能力。這種人長(zhǎng)于仲裁與排解紛爭(zhēng),適于發(fā)展外交、仲裁等事業(yè)。表現(xiàn)在小孩子身上則常為同伴排憂(yōu)解難。 (3)人際關(guān)系。亦即羅杰對(duì)同伴所表現(xiàn)的關(guān)心,這種人深諳人際關(guān)系的藝術(shù),善解人意,適于團(tuán)體合作,更是忠實(shí)的伴侶、朋友與事業(yè)伙伴,也會(huì)是稱(chēng)職的職員或教師。 (4)分析能力。敏于察知他人的情感動(dòng)機(jī)與想法,易與他人建立深刻的親密關(guān)系,
17、心理治療師與咨詢(xún)?nèi)藛T正是這種能力發(fā)揮到極致的例子,若再加上文學(xué)才華則可能成為優(yōu)秀的小說(shuō)家或戲劇家。 這些技巧是人際關(guān)系的潤(rùn)滑劑,是構(gòu)成個(gè)人魅力與領(lǐng)袖風(fēng)范的根本要件。具備這些社交智能的人易與人建立關(guān)系,長(zhǎng)于察顏觀(guān)色,領(lǐng)導(dǎo)和組織能力俱強(qiáng)。與此種人共處是非常愉快的,因此他們總是廣受歡迎。社社 會(huì)會(huì) 技技 能能同同感感15The Shell Leadership Framework1617Shell Leadership Purpose and ObjectivesBuilding stronger personal leadership and high quality engagement beh
18、aviours and skills will result in better business results. To enhance personal leadership by: o Knowing where you are (insight)o Knowing where you want to be and go (vision)o Understanding how to act accordingly (accountability)To increase your capability to communicate more effectively, build bette
19、r relationships and get better results To understand how to transfer personal leadership and leading people into improvement of better business results (9 Planets Framework) To apply the principles of system thinking to issues To promote a common language of engagement and personal leadership(Handou
20、t)18Outcomes Increased sense of personal awareness and empowerment Increased sense of responsibility for your own choices Increased level of capability for engaging in important conversations with others. Increased sense of personal commitment to your own future 19Good to GreatHumility makes improve
21、mentConsider the experience and knowledge of others Shows a strong sense of certainty and stands firm when appropriate Steps forward to take charge when trouble comesTakes unpopular stands and actions if necessary Creates a clear, strategic, purposeful vision Provides strength and leadership during
22、tough times(Handout)Persistence20(1)了解什么是成功了解什么是成功(2)了解成功的關(guān)鍵要素了解成功的關(guān)鍵要素(3)了解如何達(dá)到成功、自信了解如何達(dá)到成功、自信和快樂(lè)的理想境界和快樂(lè)的理想境界21Self-Maintenance Circle of SuccessSuccessHappinessSelf-ConfidencePositive/ReinforcingLoop(Handout)Deep InnerLife陳凱課堂上強(qiáng)調(diào)的“大人物要講唯心”、“心法”其目的均在如何使人成功其目的均在如何使人成功良好心態(tài)的維持方法良好心態(tài)的維持方法 心法的一種心法的一種2
23、23 Steps to Success成功就是自己展現(xiàn)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)力的過(guò)程成功就是自己展現(xiàn)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)力的過(guò)程 領(lǐng)導(dǎo)自己走向成功領(lǐng)導(dǎo)自己走向成功Only you know yourself well. Define your own goal and improve yourself step by step. Success is to be your best self Self-assessment for where to be improved- Presentation skills, communication skillsSet action plans- Deliver 2 speeches
24、 every month- Say hello to everyone you meetFocus on what your are most interested in and passionate ofRealize your potential in your most interested fieldGive yourself more choicesWhat is your living goal?- Impact, love, happiness, family, work, learning, creativityThe only one who can tell your li
25、ving goal is yourselfReach your goal step by stepDo what you are most interested inSet goal and be proactiveEQ and Leadership23Gain self-confidence from success Gain self-awareness from failure - Can you accept the worst result?3 Steps to Self-ConfidencePeople with self-confidence are always willing
26、 to try what they dont know and gain improvement. They are easier to be successful and happyDefine specific goals- Must be measurableAsk for negative feedback proactively- Ask your best friends- Anonymous surveyBelieve you are the best- Everyone has his own specialtiesStrengthen your specialties and
27、 control your shortcomingsImprove self-confidence through learningKeep persistence and courage243 Steps to HappinessHappiness can improve effectiveness and creativity. The ultra goal of success is happinessCommunication is the best way to improve EQ and happiness- Be optimistic and keep smiling- Sha
28、re your happiness and sadness with your parents and friendsAlso be a good listenerOpen and respectful- Dont hide yourselfSelf-awareness and self control- Take a deep breath when your are angry- Ask your friends to remind youAccept what cannot be changed- Your parents- Your environment: exams, boring
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