怎么用英語(yǔ)應(yīng)對(duì)別人的嫉妒

怎么用英語(yǔ)應(yīng)對(duì)別人的嫉妒？怎么用英語(yǔ)應(yīng)對(duì)別人的嫉妒?Ifoundthesecretinanunexpectedplace--aneight-montholdProductHunt個(gè)月的產(chǎn)品的考察。WhenIwasyounger,Ihadsomebadhabits.Iwas morethanIwouldhavelikedtoadmit.Ihadagoodlife,butIwantedmore.Ienviedthosearoundmewhoseemedtomakeithappen.年輕的時(shí)候，我確是有些壞習(xí)慣的。我有嫉妒心——盡管我不想承認(rèn)這個(gè)事實(shí)。過(guò)得如意，而我偏偏更是貪婪；我嫉妒周圍能取得成功的人。That'swhythisshortexchangeinaneight-month-oldthreadonProductHuntreallycaughtmyeye.It'saboutwhattodowhenyou'vehadsuccess--andwhenyourealizeothersarestartingtofeelfrustratedasaresult.如是原因，我對(duì)這個(gè)項(xiàng)目充滿了興趣——取得了成功以及心里清楚自己的成功對(duì)于別人來(lái)說(shuō)可能也是帶來(lái)了挫敗感時(shí)，下一步動(dòng)向該是如何。"Iwasworkingonthat..."“我最近忙著做. ”Ifyou'renotfamiliarwithProductHunt,youshouldbe.It'saplacetodiscovercoolnewproductsjustabouteveryday.Earlierthisyear,theguyswhofoundedthelivestreamingserviceMeerkattooktothesitetoannouncetheirlaunch.對(duì)producthunt有所認(rèn)知還是必要的——年初，的創(chuàng)建者正式啟動(dòng)了這個(gè)項(xiàng)目。在這里，探尋新產(chǎn)品幾乎是每天都要做的事情。Itwasaverypopularthread,withallkindsofpositivecomments.Onememberofthecommunityhowever,aprogrammernamedPierreGoutheraud(whogoesbythescreenname@httpete)foundthewholethingtobehorribletiming.Hecommented:"Iwasworkingonthesameexactapp.kindadepressedrightnow."Man,didIeverfeelforPete--orPierre,Iguess.I'vebeen序猿PierreGoutheraud（@httpete）的人覺(jué)得這事兒實(shí)在是個(gè)噩耗吧。他這樣說(shuō)道：“我還在開(kāi)發(fā)我的app，然而meerkat就像他的`雙胞胎兄弟一樣?！被镉?jì)，我懂你，這種事兒我經(jīng)歷過(guò)。Encouragement打賞WhatwasgreatwastheresponsethatMeerkatcofounderBenRubingave.Ican'thelpbutquoteitinfull:Meerkat合伙人BenRubin的回應(yīng)我要點(diǎn)贊，好想好想全部引用他說(shuō)的這段話：“PETE!Whatmakesyouthinkyouarenotcapableofsomethingbetter/different?Itwouldbeaverysadworldifpeoplejustgiveuponideas.Icantellyouthatlivevideospaceisstillbrokenintermsofdistributionmechanism,andthatobviouslyMeerkatisnotperfect.there'saverygoodchancethatanyoneintheworldwouldcomeupwithabetterproduct/perspective.Please,gobacktocode.that'showweallbuildbetterthingstogether,evenwhenweworkseparately.--welearnfromeachother.”P(pán)ETE！是讓你覺(jué)得自己不足以做出更好或是有所不同的產(chǎn)品呢？若是人人都將靈光一現(xiàn)視為不可取，那么這個(gè)世界是可悲的吧。我直言，Meerkat確實(shí)還有缺陷，例如現(xiàn)場(chǎng)部分在機(jī)械分銷上面仍有漏洞，而且我敢說(shuō)總還有人會(huì)做得比我更好。所以求你了，回來(lái)摞碼吧，和我在一起——雖然我們分開(kāi)工作，但是我們總能互相學(xué)到很多。ImightbeoverstatingtosayPierrewasjealous--maybealittlebitfrustrated.ButBenhandleditperfectly--andadmirably.Thepointis,whenpeoplelookatyoursuccessandwishtheycouldachieveit,themosthighestresponseyoucangiveistoencouragethemtodoso,evenifitmightmeanultimatelyoutshining起妒忌心了——挫敗感可能也是有的。但是Ben當(dāng)有人看見(jiàn)你的成功正是自己孜孜以求而不得之時(shí)，最好的答復(fù)便是也鼓勵(lì)他們這樣嘗試吧，雖然這樣做的結(jié)果可能是最終他們真的超越了你。Meerkat,ofcourse,theironyhereisthatMeerkatisfacingatoughbattle,sinceTwitteracquireditscompetitorPeriscopenotlongafterthisProductHuntthread.(IadmitIcametothepartylate,andhaveonlystartedcheckingoutbothappsfairlyrecently--soI'mnotsureatallwhatthefutureholdsforMeerkat現(xiàn)在也是不好過(guò)的——在這項(xiàng)考察開(kāi)始不久就把對(duì)手Periscope納入了囊中（我承認(rèn)自己加入這個(gè)考察晚了點(diǎn)兒，這兩個(gè)app的審視才剛剛起步——所以我不能完全看清Meerkat的未來(lái)。）However,asoneofthecommenterswhosawRubin'sremarkputtoldhim:"WhetherornorMeerkatsucceeds(anditseem