大學英語作文之家長和孩子 Parents and Kids

大學英語作文之家長和孩子ParentsandKidsManyparentswhowelcometheideaofturningoffTVandspendingmoretimewiththefamilyarestillwordedthatwithoutTVtheywouldconstantlybeoncallasentertainersfortheirchildren.Theyrememberthinkingupallsortsofthingstodowhentheywerekids.Buttheirownkidsseemdifferent,lessresourceful,somewhat.Whenthere’snothingtodo,theseparentsobserveregretfully,theirkidsseemunabletocomeupwithanythingtodobesidesturningonTV.許多家長表示對關掉電視花更多時間陪家人表示贊同，這樣他們可以花更多時間陪孩子而不是看電視。當他們還是孩子的時候他們會想到更多事情去做，但是自己的孩子似乎不同，有時候更少的足智多謀。當沒有什么可做的時候，家長們遺憾的是，他們的孩子除了打開電視想不到任何的其他事情。Onefather,forexample,says,"WhenIwasakid,wewerealwaysthinkingupthingstodo.Wecertainlynevercomplaininanannoyingwaytoourparents:‘havenothingtodo!‘"Hecomparesthiswithhisownchildrentoday:"They’resimplylazy.Ifsomeonedoesn’tentertainthem,they’IIhappilysittherewatchingTVallday."例如，一位父親說:“當我還是個孩子的時候，我們總是思考事情要做。我們不會抱怨父母:“沒什么可做”比起他們自己的孩子：“他們只是懶惰。如果有人不招待他們，他們將開心得一整天坐著看電視。”Thereisonewordforthisfather’sdisappointment:unfair.Hedeploreshischildren’slackofinventiveness,asiftheabilitytoplayweresomethinginnatethathischildrenaremissing.Infact,whilethetendencytoplayisbuiltintothehumanspecies.有一個詞可以形容這個父親的失望，不公平。他譴責他的孩子缺乏創(chuàng)造力，好像能力是天生的，他的孩子們玩失蹤。事實上，玩耍是人類特有的傾向。Suchdisappointment,however,isnotonlyunjust,itisalsodestructive.Sensingtheirparents’disappointment,childrencometobelievethattheyare,indeed,lackingsomething,andthatthismakesthemlessworthyofadmirationandrespect.Givingchildrentheopportunitytodevelopnewre-sources,toenlargetheirhorizonsanddiscoverthepleasuresofdoingthingsontheirownis,ontheotherhand,awaytohelpchildrendevelopaconfidentfeelingaboutthemselvesascapableandinterestingpeople.然而這種失望，不僅是不公平的，也是破壞