打造孩子的52個(gè)品格

1、打造孩子的52個(gè)品格閱讀第一：中國目前的教育體系缺乏對孩子進(jìn)行的價(jià)值觀和社會公德的教育，以致于培養(yǎng)出很多高智商，但漠視社會規(guī)則和公共秩序的自私者。我們家長一定要意識到孩子品格的培養(yǎng)也是家庭教育非常重要的一部分。如何培養(yǎng)一個(gè)善良、仁愛、有責(zé)任心，尊重他人，遵守社會公德、誠信、守時(shí)、自信、勇敢、合作、會自我保護(hù)的孩子？今天，我們將和大家分享一篇與培養(yǎng)孩子品格教育相關(guān)的文章。作者是美國著名教師 Leah Davies；從教近50年，她對孩子需要培養(yǎng)的基本品格做了一個(gè)總結(jié)，形成了著名的 52 Character Building Thoughts for Children. 這52條在美國被很多學(xué)校作

2、為品格教育的基本綱領(lǐng)使用。建議的使用方法是這樣的：老師或家長把這52條貼在教室或家里顯著的地方每周和孩子進(jìn)行一次交流討論：總結(jié)這一周下來，他們有什么體悟？這些規(guī)則是否適用于他們的日?；顒?dòng)？有什么問題？等等。52 Character Building Thoughts for Children打造孩子的52種品格1、How I look is not as important as how I act.我的行為比我的外表更重要2、I treat others the way I want them to treat me.我對待別人，如同希望別人待我3、I am a good sport; I

3、follow the rules, take turns and play fair.我遵守運(yùn)動(dòng)規(guī)則、秩序，公平競技4、It is okay to laugh at funny things, but not to laugh at others.可以笑事，不能笑人5、I do not gossip; if I cannot say anything helpful, I do not say anything at all.我不說閑話；如果不能說出有用的話，我寧愿不說6、When I am sad, I help myself feel better by thinking of thing

4、s that are good in my life.我悲傷的時(shí)候，會通過想像生活中美好的事情來讓自己感覺好些7、In order to have friends, I must act in a kind way.想要朋友，我須表現(xiàn)友好8、I believe that I am someone who can do important things.我相信我是能做重要事情、擔(dān)負(fù)重要責(zé)任的人9、What I say and how I say it tells others the kind of person I am.我說什么、怎么說，告訴了別人我是怎樣的人10、I appreciate

5、my family, my teachers, and my school.我感謝和珍惜我的家庭、老師和學(xué)校11、I treat everyone with respect.我尊重每個(gè)人12、When I listen, I show others that I care about them.我仔細(xì)聆聽，表現(xiàn)出對別人的關(guān)注13、I am being a good citizen when I volunteer to help others.我志愿為別人服務(wù)的時(shí)候，就是一個(gè)好公民14、I think for myself and make smart choices that are goo

6、d for me.我為自己著想，為自己做明智的決定15、Each day offers a new start to do my best.每一天，都可以是一個(gè)盡力而為的開始16、I try to understand what my friends are feeling.我試圖理解朋友們的感受17、Everyone makes mistakes, so instead of getting angry with myself, I try to do better.每個(gè)人都會犯錯(cuò)誤，與其對自己生氣，不如努力去做得更好18、I do not give up; I keep trying un

7、til I can do my work.我不放棄，我一直努力嘗試，直到能做好19、Sharing with others makes me feel good and makes them feel good too.和別人分享能讓我快樂，也能讓別人快樂20、I work out my problems without hurting myself or others.不傷自己，不礙別人，我能解決自己的問題21、I am being polite when I wait for my turn and say please and thank you.等待的時(shí)候我能保持禮貌，說請，致謝22、

8、When I smile at people, they usually smile back.我對別人笑，別人也會對我笑23、I encourage my friends to do their best.我鼓勵(lì)朋友們?nèi)プ龅酶?4、My values guide me to do what is right.我有指導(dǎo)自己行為的價(jià)值觀25、I am honest; I do not cheat or steal.我誠實(shí)、不欺騙或偷竊26、When I am angry, I use self-control and do not hurt others.我生氣的時(shí)候，會自我節(jié)制，不傷害別人2

9、7、I am being creative when I dance, draw, paint or write a poem or story.我跳舞、涂鴉、繪畫，或?qū)懺?、寫故事的時(shí)候，富有創(chuàng)造力28、I say, No! to things that could hurt my body like tobacco and alcohol.如果這件事對我身體有害，如抽煙、喝酒，我不會去做29、When I do what I say I will do, I am being responsible.當(dāng)我做了我答應(yīng)要做的事情，我是一個(gè)負(fù)責(zé)任的人30、I am grateful for wha

10、t I have, so I share with others.我很感激我所擁有的，因而愿意與人分享31、I try to learn something new each day.我每天都會去學(xué)一些新知識32、When things do not go my way, I stop and think of what I can do to make them better.當(dāng)事情不順利的時(shí)候，我停下來，思考怎樣做才能讓情況好轉(zhuǎn)33、I do not make fun of other children because I dont know what their life is like

11、.我不取笑其他孩子，因?yàn)槲也涣私馑麄兊纳?4、I feel successful when I do my best.我盡力的時(shí)候，就會感到自己是成功的35、Everyone has good and bad feelings.每個(gè)人都會有感覺好和感覺不好的時(shí)候36、I take care of myself by eating healthy food, exercising and getting enough rest.我照顧自己的身體，吃健康食品、鍛煉、休息好37、I am being punctual when I am on time and do not keep people

12、 waiting.我準(zhǔn)時(shí)，不讓別人等我38、When I cooperate with others, I get more done.當(dāng)我與別人合作的時(shí)候，能完成更多的事情39、I follow the rules and try to make my school a better place.我遵守規(guī)則，讓我的學(xué)校變得更好40、I like to get to know children who are different from me.我愿意去了解那些與我不同的孩子們41、Since I tell the truth, my friends trust me.因?yàn)槲艺f真話，我的朋友們

13、信任我42、I look for what is good in others and I say what I like about them.我尋找別人身上的優(yōu)點(diǎn)，我說出我喜歡他們的地方43、I buy only what I need and I save my money.我只買我需要的東西，存下我的余錢44、When I use my time wisely, there is usually enough time to do what I want to do.當(dāng)我合理安排時(shí)間，通常就會有足夠的時(shí)間去做我想做的事情45、I think before I act; how I ac

14、t affects how others treat me.行動(dòng)前我會先思考；我的行動(dòng)會對別人如何對待我產(chǎn)生影響46、Using manners helps me keep my friends.禮貌讓我能保持友誼47、I have courage to stand up for children who are teased.我有勇氣為被嘲弄的孩子挺身而出48、Before I do something, I ask myself, Is it safe?我做一件事之前，問自己：安全么？49、I am me - I do not try to be like someone else.我是我自己我不會試圖成為別人50、I care about living things on earth so I recycle and do not litter.我珍惜地球上各種生命，所